【水 漫 开 元】 第 四 期 【故 乡 的 云】（访谈结束，请参与讨论 ）

Vongchong

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:27 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438770&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 可能么？ &nbsp; 为什么人会觉得越活越累？就是因为记忆太多了，有时就好像包袱一样。 &nbsp; 而且，人会从失败中汲取教训，不论这个是正面的还是负面的，总归是有影响的。 &nbsp; 所以，我 ...

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<P>的确100%的可能性不大，不过，真心一定要放在老婆/老公身上，这是原则哦。</P>
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<P>谈两次足够了，太多了浪费时间，金钱，还有精力呢。大家都老大不小了。一定慎重恋爱呢。嘿嘿</P>

bushuang

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原帖由 <I>分飞</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:26 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438765&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 我很喜欢付出。 &nbsp; 因为每次付出是我表现的机会 &nbsp; 而他，给了我这个舞台。。。所以我更爱他了 &nbsp; 所以，一旦结束，我不会过于伤感于付出的没了回报 &nbsp; 我很爱自己付出的样 ...

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<P>好超脱啊</P>

分飞

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原帖由 <I>▓周末心情▓</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:34 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438821&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 这是不成熟的开放！悲哀！

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<P>大大来了，起码再来10页没问题</P>

fangyue

原帖由 <i>PIAOPIAOPIAOPIAO</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:33 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438819&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>

前提是，开始的时候不能儿戏
比如，我17岁的时候的恋爱当然不能和现在的恋爱一个样

<br>13岁被人追，完全没有搞明白爱情是什么。<br>只是害怕少个朋友就答应了，<img smilieid="51" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/smilies/PIGcry.gif" border="0">，初恋真的失败<br>

分飞

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原帖由 <I>bushuang</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:36 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438830&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 好超脱啊

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<P>这不是脱俗，而是懂得享受</P>

山民甲

原帖由 <i>分飞</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:35 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438825&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>


开放的也许是外在的。。。也许年轻人更浮躁了，但不能说内心深处对感情需要变了

社会的确复杂了，所以，孩子们的这样表现也可以理解

谁能保证自己生在他们的年份里，不会也一样啊

<br><br>社会基础在变<br><br>人的变化是被动的<br><br>先入为主的以为我们那个年代怎么怎么样 本来就是愚蠢的 <br><br>世界再向前发展&nbsp; <br><br>中国的阶级状况都变了&nbsp; 别说人们脑子里了<br><br><br>虚伪少了&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 赤裸裸的多了<br>

▓周末心情▓

我闪人了，睡觉了阿！
再见！

玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>Vongchong</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:29 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438784&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 哦，纷飞MM的话让我突然有种觉悟了。 &nbsp; 之所以这里对于感情大家谈的这么多，因为这里获得感情的机会相对较少。看来我真的是误解了。 &nbsp; 不知道大家是否对国内的情况还熟悉：80后的弟弟 ...

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<P>离婚不恐怖。我支持离婚。</P>
<P>但只是态度，不是做法。</P>
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<P>因为我觉得，大家要对自己的感情负责么，不喜欢了，还在一起，不是折磨么。。。</P>
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<P>所以，结婚也要慎重。。。</P>
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玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>PIAOPIAOPIAOPIAO</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:30 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438787&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 我也是喜欢自己先付出的人···· 我总觉得爱情公式里面往往没有等式但是我坚持，在一段感情中我对的其起自己，对得起这份爱，足矣~·

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<P>想起1句话，我爱你，但与你无关。</P>

fangyue

原帖由 <i>Vongchong</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:35 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438829&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>


的确100%的可能性不大，不过，真心一定要放在老婆/老公身上，这是原则哦。

谈两次足够了，太多了浪费时间，金钱，还有精力呢。大家都老大不小了。一定慎重恋爱呢。嘿嘿

<br>几次还是靠合适与否决定<br>